My partner and I enjoy having gay sex whether he is out of town or not. Additionally, we may be at work calling one another at our lunch breaks to prepare for our night at home. For us, performing this over the phone it truly keeps us constantly vibrant and creative as each call is something new. During the greeting of answering the call, I know if he is in a bad mood, we will use it for our phone entertainment.
I will use the opportunity of his bad day at work to play, telling him in a soft sensual tone that his anger is giving me chills with heat. When he speaks of his day, I let him know that he is doing nothing more than making it hotter and that I enjoy his pain and punishment. Within minutes, he too is now playing sexually on the phone with me. While doing so I let him know his anger has me so frustrated and he will need to embrace the anger so when he comes home he can release his anger while he takes care of our needs.